Loving Ourselves Today
Please join us at Camp Indianola Retreat Center in Indianola, Washington. Stay up to three days and two nights nestled in the serenity of the Puget Sound. Featuring: What is Sex and Love Addiction, Healthy Relationships and Dating followed by breakout sessions enhanced with facilitators' personal experiences to enrich and empower recovery. Early bird registration opens in June with a limited number of financial scholarships available. Kayaking and rope swing courses supplied additionally.
Keynote Speaker:
Donna J. Bevan-Lee, Ph.D., M.S.W., LIC SW is a respected pioneer in the treatment of addictions, codependency and trauma with more than 42 years experience as a psychotherapist and clinical social worker. Her trauma-based, shame-free treatment for sexual addiction has produced consistently high rates of recovery. She has lead many workshops, and in the Healing Heart Workshop she covers the basic definition and core symptoms of codependency, taking audiences questions about relationships, faith, perceived emotional realities and how they affect issues of codependency.
Registration available in June
Phone: 206-330-3210


Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Preamble

Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition oriented fellowship based on the model pioneered by Alcoholics Anonymous. The only qualification for S.L.A.A. membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction. S.L.A.A. is supported entirely through the contributions of its membership and is free to all who need it.

To counter the destructive consequences of sex and love addiction, we draw on five major resources:

  1. Sobriety. Our willingness to stop acting out in our own personal bottom-line addictive behavior on a daily basis.
  2. Sponsorship / Meetings. Our capacity to reach out for the supportive fellowship within S.L.A.A.
  3. Steps. Our practice of the Twelve Step program of recovery to achieve sexual and emotional sobriety.
  4. Service. Our giving back to the S.L.A.A. community what we continue to freely receive.
  5. Spirituality. Our developing a relationship with a Power greater than ourselves which can guide and sustain us in recovery.

As a fellowship S.L.A.A. has no opinion on outside issues and seeks no controversy. S.L.A.A. is not affiliated with any other organizations, movements, or causes, either religious or secular.

We are, however, united in a common focus: dealing with our addictive sexual and emotional behavior. We find a common denominator in our obsessive/compulsive patterns, which transcends any personal differences of sexual orientation or gender identity.

We need protect with special care the anonymity of every S.L.A.A. member. Additionally we try to avoid drawing undue attention to S.L.A.A. as a whole from the public media.


Everyone is welcome in our fellowship regardless of race, ethnicity, age (18 & over), sexual or gender orientation, ability or disability, religion or lack of religion, politics, socioeconomic status, and other such factors. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop living out a pattern of sex and love addiction